Breastfeeding a new baby with an older sibling

Expecting a new baby? Wondering how to get your older child ready? One thing to do is talk to them about babies. Describe how they look and that they mostly eat, sleep, and cry. You can also explain that they need to be held a lot, so your attention will be shared.

Tell stories about when your older child was a baby and how you took care of them. It'll help them understand they were once in the same position as the new baby.
Involve your older child in caring for the baby. Talk about what they can do, like talking to the baby, getting diapers, or fetching mom's water. It makes them feel included and responsible.
If your child has weaned or was never breastfed, explain that mom makes milk for the baby, and nursing is how the baby eats. Also, let them know nursing helps the baby feel better when they're sad or scared.
If your child still nurses and you plan to breastfeed both, talk about it. Explain that both the baby and your older child will nurse after the baby is born. Show pictures of siblings nursing together.
Don't hide breastfeeding from your older child or other children. It's a chance to show that breastfeeding is normal and healthy. It's a natural part of life to learn from and understand.
Handling curious situations: Some kids may be curious when they see you breastfeeding because they associate babies with bottles. If they ask, explain you're feeding and nurturing the baby. By showing them, you teach that breastfeeding is normal.

Let's talk about making feeding time easier.

If you need a free hand, use a pillow to lift the baby to the right height. It might take some practice, but it's worth trying. If you need to support your breast with your other hand, a rolled-up towel can help.
Are you comfy with a sling? It's great for feeding with a free hand. You can play with your other child while feeding and keep the older one from causing trouble.
Your toddler can be a helper. They can get things for you, like diapers or a water bottle. They might not hold the baby in the shower, but they can help with small tasks.
While feeding, snuggle up and read books or play games like "I Spy." Let your toddler turn the pages if your hands are busy.
Some toddlers like pretending to feed their toys while you feed. It's cute and makes them feel involved. Look at baby pictures together and talk about when they were little.
Make a safe space for you and the baby. Lie down comfortably while your toddler plays with toys. Give them a snack and a drink.
Sometimes, older kids are curious about breastfeeding. If you're okay with it, you can let them touch gently. If not, offer a little breast milk in a cup or distract them. Find what works for you and your child.

Breastfeeding a new baby with an older sibling

Step 1: Get ready

Step 2: Find a cozy spot

Step 3: Set up your fingers

Step 4: Start expressing

Step 5: Keep going

1. Size

2. Material

3. Shape and style

5. Baby's comfort

A few things to keep in mind:

Signs your baby isn’t tolerating new formula